Modesty? What modesty?

It seems like modesty went out the window these days. When people think about modesty they think they think of Mennonite ankle dresses and Kapps on. Modesty doesn't have to be all that, but girls and guys kinda disregard the fact of wearing actual clothing. Girls think that if they wear something short and low cut they will attract Mr. Right. Hate to break it to you girls but if you wear that they only thing your attracting is creeps or guys who just want to sleep with you. But if you dress in kneee high skirt and the low cut shirt but put a tank top under it. Makes it stylish yet modest. People will respect and look at you not as a fast girl but as a person to depend on.
    Modesty can be a lot of things. In mind, speech and what you wear. It's not easy keeping your mind straying or keeping it clean. Speech, the kids and teens start using crude language very young using cuss words and sensual connotations. To the guys respectable girls don't want to hear that out of your mouth. Same to the girls respectable guys don't want to hear that. They will be turned off by that fact. Another fact that guys these day can't seem to dress in a that reflects someone who wants respect. Jeans past underwear, shirts with stuff written on it that no one wants to read, and barely laced up tennis shoes. Sorry but that doesn't scream out "you can date my daughter."
      If you want to catch someone's eye dress in a way that reflect you wanting respect and talk in a way that doesn't make you look like you need to go back to school and learn how to talk. My parents showed me how to dress to impress and speak in a way that didn't make me try and sound cool or wanting to be like other high schoolers. By using proper grammar and usage of words in speech (or at least try to).

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